It has always been a war between the haves and the have nots. This standoff seems to have always existed;, this taking sides apparently is in the genes of all animals. So we either have to get comfortable with it or we have to give in to ease the pain on the part of the haves. The have nots say that they are already in a lot of pain but they will not give in. For the last five years we have had a garden in the back yard. The garden contained flowers that bloomed regularly, well, at least when the plants were supplied with enough water. The garden also had lots of good green vegetables too and provided a relief from store bought stuff. In fact it is the first time we have grown carrots successfully. The garden was the result of a lot of work; much more work than it was probably worth, but the achievement of this garden made us stand apart from others in that we had this nice garden produce as a valuable asset. We obviously were the haves. B...